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In response to
"a friend from university (who has since come out) once said "just because I fantasize about sex with men doesn't make me gay! everyone does it!""
by
mafic
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hmm. i could go either way with that (ha), depending on level of intensity or prevalence, maybe?
Posted by
b! (aka starrynut)
Jan 28 '09, 16:25
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i think we're all on a range - some folks are totally straight, never have a single same-gender sexual thought; but most of us are along the line somewhere. some fantasies if most of your urges are the other way? eh. maybe it's the would-you-act-upon it thing that's the big factor.
sometimes circumstances push us farther along - the fuzzy line when you're feeling really close to someone, and suddenly there's a gray area that wasn't before. (can happen with opp. sex or with someone who's only been a friend, too.) that wouldn't be with just any person, even more than the usual urges would have happen.
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