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boston.com Love Letters - Torn Between Two Lovers

Posted by Diva (aka Diva) Jul 18 '12, 08:25

Hi. I'm "Pam" and I just got back to my country from an exchange program in Boston.

I have been dating a guy for 6 years. He is a sweetheart and I know he loves me very much. Before I left for my exchange program, we had a long conversation about how things would work while I was living far away from him. Everything was just fine. After a year living in Boston, I met a guy (he is 27 and I'm 22) and I fell in love with him. We had so much fun together. He is a wonderful man and I can't stop thinking about the moments we spent together.

In the beginning I really tried to stay far from him because of my boyfriend, but what I was feeling for him was too strong. We kept it slow but saw each other about once a week. Now I'm back to my real life (school, work, etc.). And I'm also back to my boyfriend, but it seems that I just think about the guy I met in Boston. He calls me almost every day and we have Skype dates very often, like once or twice a week.

I'm so confused about my feelings because when I see/talk to this guy, I feel like there are butterflies in my stomach, but when I'm with my boyfriend, I feel in love with him again too. I really don't know what's wrong with me. Is it possible to be in love with both guys? Should I forget about this guy I met in Boston? Should I let my boyfriend move on?

� Pam, Brazil

Responses:

another song come to mind ~ Love the one you're with~ - Epiphany Jul 18, 08:40
"skype dates" - spamlet Jul 18, 08:38 1
- Hey works for me! -- nm - Stacy si Jul 18, 08:40
just keep doing what you're doing. See how far you can take it -- nm - CQ Jul 18, 08:38 4
- I love the advice you give. The other day with the pint of Haagen Dazs was brilliant. -- nm - Diva Jul 18, 08:40 3
  - but I really want her to do this and then have a Bachelorette style men tell all interview. -- nm - CQ Jul 18, 08:49
  - Eat a pint of ice cream in one sitting - that will show him! - Epiphany Jul 18, 08:41 [Backboard] 1
    - so funny. -- nm - Diva Jul 18, 08:43
Welcome to Whoresville. Population you. -- nm - Beaker Jul 18, 08:33 2
- "That's...not a real place." -- nm - znufrii Jul 18, 08:34 1
  - "Sorry, I was picturing Whore(sville) Island." -- nm - David Jul 18, 08:35
Clearly 272 words are enough to give us a complete picture of the two relationships so we can make an informed decision. -- nm - Ender Jul 18, 08:31 1
- Clearly she is no 5PD. -- nm - The Dark Spawn Jul 18, 08:32
ack! earworm! ~ feeling like a fool, loving you both is breaking all the rules ~ -- nm - Andie Jul 18, 08:29 1
- it's your wedding present. :) -- nm - Diva Jul 18, 08:30
From the language here, she clearly likes FNG better. -- nm - David Jul 18, 08:29 2
- effing? -- nm - Roger More Jul 18, 08:29 1
  - Yes, it seemed particularly appropriate here. -- nm - David Jul 18, 08:31
Quit trying to have your cake and eat it too, so to speak. -- nm - mafic Jul 18, 08:28 1
- or see if they have any interest in a polyamorous situation... -- nm - znufrii Jul 18, 08:29
When I used to hear that song, I thought about it literally - amoxy Jul 18, 08:28
without even reading it... hello, threesome! -- nm - znufrii Jul 18, 08:26 1
- you'd be right -- nm - Epiphany Jul 18, 08:38

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