friday hax chat q: their friend only dates people less attractive than themselves.
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PLAYING GAMES OR PLAYING IT SAFE?
I have a friend who only dates people who would be considered less attractive than they are (if that makes sense). This has been pointed out and their response is something along the lines of, "I feel safer; they won't leave/cheat/etc. because they feel lucky to be with someone attractive." I pointed out this methodology hasn't resulted in what they say they want (long term relationship), however, it has resulted in lots of dates until either one of them "move on." True they responded, "but I'm having lots of fun." I think this is just game playing. It is sort of like dating a paper cut out of a person than actually dating a person. Thoughts?
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Responses:
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Is the doorman less attractive? -- nm
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The Dark Spawn
Jul 20, 10:56
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offs
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znufrii
Jul 20, 10:53
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I do this, but it's sadly by default: I *am* the most beautiful creature on earth. -- nm
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amanda
Jul 20, 10:52
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everyone has their own likes/dislikes - often it has nothng to do with who they ultimately fall for though - chemistry is illusive -- nm
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JenBro
Jul 20, 10:52
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Ah, the low-hanging fruit. Often the sweetest.
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Dr.Vermin
Jul 20, 10:52
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you've lost, you just don't know it yet -- nm
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CQ
Jul 20, 10:52
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stop being jealous of your friend who actually goes on dates. -- nm
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Max
Jul 20, 10:50
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mind your own F'in' Business. -- nm
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Beaker
Jul 20, 10:50
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if the relationships are healthy, who cares? -- nm
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loosilu
Jul 20, 10:49
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