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In response to "also, eat something. i recommend cheese fries or ice cream. -- nm" by TFox

I can't eat, my stomach has been in a knot since 8pm, I can't sleep in more than 1hr intervals.

Posted by Hotkiss (aka hotkiss7348) Feb 6 '09, 08:19

I wake up crying and wishing we were back together even if we have to work out issues. He's hosting a dance party on Feb 13 (Fri) at a local bar and i plan on going because he always says how I never support him. Would this be a good/bad idea?

He said if i start being a bitch "i WILL kick you out because i don't want you ruining my night of fun."

is it worth going there (no cover!) and at least having him see my presence? im not sure how i'll handle the very likely possibility of him making out with someone else or grinding with them just to get back at me because he knows i'll be watching.

Responses:

I would not go. That sounds like the makings of a disaster of epic perportions. -- nm - Qale Feb 6, 08:32 2
- Even though I fully believe his claim that he wants to be back together in the future, should I not even try anymore? -- nm - Hotkiss Feb 6, 08:34 1
  - not trying will actually work better than trying. - Andie Feb 6, 08:37
Don't go under any circumstances. Because this is a mean guy, it's guaranteed he'll parade a new girl in front of you. -- nm - loosilu Feb 6, 08:23
do. not. go. to the party. no good will come of it. - Andie Feb 6, 08:22
He sounds like a jerk, and "no cover" isn't worth that - MDH Feb 6, 08:22
yeah, i wouldn't go. certainly not this soon after all this happening. - TFox Feb 6, 08:22
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Simple. - znufrii Feb 6, 08:22 3
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  - completely differnet situation, thankyouverymuch. -- nm - znufrii Feb 6, 08:23
- wordy mcword. -- nm - kelly Feb 6, 08:22
Drink some orange juice or Sunny Delight. And don't go to the dance party. -- nm - TaurusII Feb 6, 08:21 16
- I want him back so bad and this is one of the only real ways I can gain a bit of his favor back. - Hotkiss Feb 6, 08:23 15
  - not wrong, a natural reaction - but if you him back , you will stay away - Epiphany Feb 6, 08:26
  - Going to the party will in no way win him back. Contacting him in any way will drive him further away. - loosilu Feb 6, 08:25
  - not wrong at all, but it won't play out that way. -- nm - Andie Feb 6, 08:24 11
    - I dont think he'll come running back to me but I think it'll gain me an ounce of credibility withhim - Hotkiss Feb 6, 08:26 10
      - it seems like it should, but it really won't - Epiphany Feb 6, 08:29
      - but that said, generally "you left during my set" isn't a reason people break up. - TFox Feb 6, 08:29
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        and, he may be confused and he may still have feelings, but if he broke it off, he's done on some critical level. - Andie Feb 6, 08:30 1
        
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        damnit, quit saying the same shit as me, dawson. -- nm - TFox Feb 6, 08:30
      - It doesn't matter what happened in the past, you don't deserve more pain today -- nm - con_carne Feb 6, 08:28
      - but it doesn't help you. and you being there and sad and crying isn't, in any way, going to make him see you in a different light. - Andie Feb 6, 08:28
      - Not worth it in this moment. - znufrii Feb 6, 08:27
      - Listen closely. do NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT go to the party. It will erode your credibility. - loosilu Feb 6, 08:27
  - it's not wrong, but it won't work like you're picturing it, unfortunately. -- nm - TFox Feb 6, 08:23

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