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You never forget the first time you get dumped. Never.

Posted by Mel Profit (aka Mel Profit) Feb 6 '09, 08:29

it's glorious in it's white hot heat of intensity. It's the most frivolous/self indulgent but justified/necessary expenditure of emotional energy.

I was drunk for an entire summer. I was a flat out mess, I walked to my job at Wendy's. I ate salad and stood in the middle of the road at 2am. I thought I'd never survive and if I did that it was pointless.

With a little time and perspective it actually makes me giggle at myself. You'll get through it HK. It absolutely sucks, it's pain upon pain but you'll get through it.

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Nope. Never. - kelly Feb 6, 08:34
This - ty97 Feb 6, 08:32 7
- unsolicited advice... - Mel Profit Feb 6, 08:34 6
  - I don't want to get close to anyone else, kiss anyone else. I want my friends around but at the same time, I just want to be alone forever. -- nm - Hotkiss Feb 6, 08:35 2
    - Just know that it will pass (even though it doesn't feel like it will). Just do what you want and try to do things you enjoy. Stay away from him. - pmb Feb 6, 08:39
    - You eventually will want all that, will want to be around others. - kelly Feb 6, 08:37
  - and - znufrii Feb 6, 08:35 2
    - not so sure about that - ty97 Feb 6, 08:36 1
      - not too late, ty. take it from me. -- nm - loosilu Feb 6, 08:36
I haven't showerd, my room is a mess, my pillow is full of salt. This too shall pass? -- nm - Hotkiss Feb 6, 08:32 3
- Soon you'll stink so bad you can't stand it, so you'll shower. In a burst of energy you will clean the whole place. - TWuG Feb 6, 08:35
- It will...Do you have another friend that you can totally lean on? Become a blubbering idiot with? - amoxy Feb 6, 08:35
- oh, aboslutely. it's ok to wallow in that for awhile. it passes, I promise. -- nm - loosilu Feb 6, 08:34
i think i listened to zeppelin's "babe i'm gonna leave you" for about 2 weeks straight -- nm - prayformojo Feb 6, 08:32
Exactly. Embrace the pain for a while. All this talk about forgetting and moving on is ridiculous. -- nm - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Feb 6, 08:32
In my whole life, I have never been dumped per se. So strange. -- nm - David Feb 6, 08:31 4
- you are a very fortunate man. -- nm - loosilu Feb 6, 08:33 1
  - I've still been cut to the core a a few times, just not dumped. -- nm - David Feb 6, 08:35
- Always the dumper, never the dumpee? -- nm - TWuG Feb 6, 08:32 1
  - I've never really randomly dumped anyone either. - David Feb 6, 08:33
I know I was a mess but don't remember the specifics like that. However I did make the mistake of maintaining contact, which caused it to drag out - loosilu Feb 6, 08:30
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