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In response to
"oh woah, much better hax chat question: hubby continued to see and sleep with his ex three years into the marriage!"
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pigby
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She should make him totally earn her trust. She should also watch him like a hawk. If she wants to keep her marriage intact, they should both go to
Posted by
Trish (aka Trisha)
Feb 6 '09, 12:08
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counselling-separately and together. He's going to consider this a done deal and be over it and not understand the sense of hurt and betrayal that she's experiencing. He's probably also going to try to rationalize his dickish behavior and act angry because she's so upset. She needs to stick to her guns and realize it's ok to feel hurt and used and betrayed. Then, with a lot of work, they may get past this.
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