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In response to
"Reality is I don't think that's true, but it depends on how bad it is. Mine was a low conflict marriage."
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pmb
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Honestly...this is such an extreme situation (this whole 3 years of cheating thing)
Posted by
Jim (aka Jim)
Feb 6 '09, 12:40
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which is probably the reason for the extreme reactions.
Again, this isn't an "oops I slipped one time and I've felt like complete shit every day since".
This is a pre-meditated 3-year betrayal of trust. And like Sean said...he was even cheating while the wedding plans were being made. I mean...did he fuck her on his wedding day before heading to the chapel? The night before at the bachelor party?
That is very extreme...which is why I'm so black and white on the issue.
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