oh, and hotkiss.
Posted by
b! (aka starrynut)
Feb 6 '09, 13:52
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from your morning posts -
i think the guy is messing with you. no matter what you did 6 months ago, he was back with you after that, being ok enough with you that he even took you to his family home at the holidays. what he's doing now is likely not related to whatever happened back then, so don't let that be an excuse for his poor behavior now.
a non-messing person does not say they want to get back with you while being mean and making you feel bad now. nor is making you jump through hoops to get his approval ok to do.
he is not acting like someone who cares about your mental/emotional well-being. please do not choose to spend time with him, at least until you have enough distance from this new badness that you can stay in control and not be reactive to what may come your way from him.
you can tell a lot of us have been through this kind of ick. it sucks, bites, and blows all at once; but, as others have said, for sure you will get through it. in the meantime, we don't want you to have the bad be prolonged.
take care of yourself, keep doing the one foot in front of the other thing, and the weight you're feeling will start to ease.
we're here for you. *hugs*
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