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In response to "Question to ponder: Do you want to jump right back in, or give yourself a short period of time to 'mourn' what you've lost." by ty97

I've been mourning for years. I've been lacking a close, intimate, relationship for years.

Posted by Mop (188 lbs) (aka rburriel) Dec 26 '12, 10:08

I've been missing someone to cuddle with for years. It's time I got what I wanted. Also, that means I don't particularly want to jump into a threesome, even if it is with two hot girls.

Mop

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can't say I blame you. you should be able to go out and get what you want. - merry xmas and happy znu year Dec 26, 10:12 3
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  - just saying that if I had waited out some socially mandated grieving period for my past relationship even though I was totally ready to move on, - merry xmas and happy znu year Dec 26, 10:27 1
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but you didn't call it that. you didn't talk that out. you can't kill the beast until you give it a name - amanda Dec 26, 10:11 1
- I'm not sure I'd call her a beast, and I probably don't want to kill her. -- nm - Mop (188 lbs) Dec 26, 10:54
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- I also do not know what the "I am divorced and have x # of kids" factor is. - groiny Dec 26, 10:13 4
  - at a certain age, everyone is divorced with kids. so it's not that big of a deal really. -- nm - amanda Dec 26, 10:14 2
    - I always wondered about this. nm -- nm - groiny Dec 26, 10:15 1
      - it's an "it depends" question. -- nm - Loosi Lou Who Dec 26, 10:15
  - divorced last week? lots. -- nm - Loosi Lou Who Dec 26, 10:13
- Totally legitimate. I understand this and realize I may have to wait. -- nm - Mop (188 lbs) Dec 26, 10:11 2
  - also, if you're saying "I'm mourning" that'll come off as needy and bitter. so again, wait. reflect. then date. - amanda Dec 26, 10:12 1
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I've been mourning for years. I've been lacking a close, intimate, relationship for years.

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