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boston.com Love Letters - He's Distancing Himself

Posted by Diva (aka Diva) Jun 25 '13, 07:18

Meredith, I need your advice. During my senior year of high school (2006), I dated this guy (A) for two to three months. I ended up leaving him for my ex-boyfriend (J). A and I remained really good friends. He tried to get back with me a few months later and then a year later, but I didn't feel anything for him anymore.

One year later, J and I had a son and moved in together. Everything was fine for a while ... but then things started to go bad and I always turned to A, who was there for me. I slowly started falling for him. We ended up being romantically involved with each other for a few years. Then, two years ago, we ended things and he started dating someone else, but we still remained great friends. We hung out together and talked for hours and everything was pretty good. We haven't slept together in two years since he's been with his girlfriend. Recently he started distancing himself from me he doesn't even want my friendship anymore (at least that's how it seems). If he does contact me, it happens after 9 p.m. and we all know what that means.

I still have very strong feelings for him, although I'm sure his went away. I'm confused about why has he become so distant? Why did he stick around for so long? What should I do? I think I'm in love with him. Your advice would be appreciated. Thank you!

� He's pulling away, Illinois

Responses:

"I still have very strong feelings for him, although __I'm sure his went away__. I'm confused about why has he become so distant?" umm, because ... - zork Jun 25, 08:27
"We haven't slept together in two years since he's been with his girlfriend. " - Inigo Jun 25, 08:15
What does calling after 9 mean? Booty call? -- nm - Roger More Jun 25, 08:12 5
- he likes black olives. -- nm - amanda Jun 25, 08:13
- he waits until he is alone or the new girlfriend is asleep -- nm - decline Jun 25, 08:12 3
  - I'm shocked that his priority is to spend time with his actual girlfriend when she is over -- nm - Roger More Jun 25, 08:18
  - Yep girlfriend gave him the ultimatum and you lost. -- nm - Jim Jun 25, 08:13 1
    - Mmm-hmm. -- nm - Mop (190 lbs) Jun 25, 08:24
He's not your boyfriend. And his current girlfriend is probably threatened by you, thus his behavior. Go away. -- nm - Mop on Mac Pro Jun 25, 08:05
you broke up without knowing you were together. he is over it. move on. -- nm - Andie Jun 25, 07:22
offs -- nm - znufrii Jun 25, 07:22
good Lord -- nm - Beaker Jun 25, 07:20

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