Gentleman Scholar q: should a gentleman practice no SHP when it comes to online porn?
Posted by
charlie (aka chris)
Jul 10 '13, 10:11
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Dear Gentleman Scholar,
As a 27-year-old, I belong to the transitional generation of men first exposed to the Internet right at puberty. Because my parents did not understand the Internet, I quickly discovered the digital land of lusty ladies.
As I got older, masturbating to porn became a daily routine, with ever more variety and preloading of additional tabs. When the time came for the real thing with my girlfriend, it was so different from porn that I could not orgasm. Later, we were able to have good sex (sometimes), but when we broke up, I went back to the pron and it got worse. Now I find myself unable to have casual sex and experience arousal issues generally. (It is not physical; I got a checkup.)
This is not an uncommon issue, and many communities are springing up for men to help each other. I am undertaking the no-fap challenge, and I have not masturbated in two months. What is your opinion on the accessibility of porn online and the effect it is having on modern men?
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