boston.com Love Letters - Do I Let Go Of My Fiance?
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Diva (aka Diva)
Jul 15 '13, 06:59
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I've been with my fiance for eight years. We have been living together for six and engaged for about four. We have gone through a lot of up and downs, and I often think that this relationship isn't what will make me happy. We have very little in common, and the little quirks that used to be cute (or tolerable) are completely aggravating and annoying. I have also recently had feelings for someone else, and over the last several years there have been a few other men I have had feelings for. Seeing this other guy with his new girlfriend is really driving me crazy and I just can't get him out of my head no matter how hard I try. Three weeks ago I couldn't hold it in any longer and broke down, telling my fiance that I haven't been happy for a while. I haven't worn my engagement ring since that day either, and he is upset about that, saying that I'm now telling the whole world that I'm single. We recently started couples counseling to see if we can improve things, but I don't have high expectations. My friends and family (and his family as well) have told us that we should break up. Logically, I know these are red flags for our relationship, but I am having so much trouble letting my fiance go.
� Trouble Letting Go, Boston
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