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In response to "so jamie and I are fighting about something. I'd love your take on this." by the ides of march love mandy lane

If you're offering to help her, and she can't do the simple courtesy of responding using grownup methods, I'd just lose interest in helping, probably. -- nm

Posted by TFox (aka TFox) Feb 19 '09, 07:53

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hear hear ! -- nm - Jammed Uzi Feb 19, 07:54 9
- the second part of this equation is that the thing about which I paged her this morning is - the ides of march love mandy lane Feb 19, 08:01 8
  - I suggest you tell her you have a job lead & you think she would be a good candidate, and that you'd like to discuss it on email before making a... - Roger More Feb 19, 08:06 2
    - If you tell her what it is, you're almost honor-bound to then go forward regardless. - Will Hunting Feb 19, 08:07 1
      - OK - but at the moment the texter doesn't have a clear idea of the situation, and that's what I would want to give her before deciding whether or not - Roger More Feb 19, 08:12
  - I'd tell her that you have a VIP thing you have to discuss with her; that can only be done by email. If she fails to get back, you've done your duty. - Will Hunting Feb 19, 08:04
  - sounds like you're not being consistent, though. you're doing some stuff by text. -- nm - loosilu Feb 19, 08:02 3
    - I told her via text that I needed to talk to her via email. I was notifying her via text that I had something to discuss via email - the ides of march love mandy lane Feb 19, 08:04 2
      - I still think an important part of communicating is to convey the scope of consequence. YGMing someone about an issue that's private (yet trivial) is - landbeck Feb 19, 08:10
      - I see. then I agree with the majority. -- nm - loosilu Feb 19, 08:05
Agree completely. -- nm - MDH Feb 19, 07:53

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