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In response to
"so jamie and I are fighting about something. I'd love your take on this."
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the ides of march love mandy lane
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She has twice failed to follow instructions, but you also didn't threaten any consequence for her failure. I would
Posted by
landbeck
Feb 19 '09, 08:00
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1) be more clear that you will NOT respond to her if she fails to follow your instructions, or
2) be explicit that there will be some punitive measure if she texts you again when you tell her not to.
You aren't overreacting (she's being uncooperative) but your attempt to politely steer her behavior has resulted in a lack of clarity on your part. So if you want to be justified in being angry (versus just annoyed) you need to be more clear.
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