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So I want to ask the woman I went out with last night to dinner next week... do I do it today? over the weekend? monday?

Posted by secretslacker Oct 24 '08, 09:25

I worry about seeming too desperate although since she might be leaving town for three months, it might be my last chance to see her until January.

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Just call today. But only once. And don't text or email. - Amy Oct 24, 09:51
If you had a good time and she had a good time, there's nothing wrong with asking her today. - Trish Oct 24, 09:29 31
- I dunno... I've been burned by sending Emails right after a date before... - secretslacker Oct 24, 09:46 2
  - Cause an email is childish and cowardly. CALL. -- nm - Shaun Oct 24, 09:51
  - call her. make voice contact THEN email. -- nm - Remlik Oct 24, 09:48
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  - I read this three times and I'm not sure if it's a "yes" or a "no" on Emailing her :) -- nm - secretslacker Oct 24, 09:45 2
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  - To add to this... - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:34 15
    - And to add to this: my best relationship (still current, cross fingers) is the only one where I could be with her without having to play tactics - celedhrymandias Oct 24, 09:39
    - agreed. When did you get so wise Mel? -- nm - Remlik Oct 24, 09:38 4
      - I've said it here many times, Mel knows women. -- nm - loosilu Oct 24, 09:49
      - I'm dumb with this stuff. -- nm - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:39
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        *finger to nose* -- nm - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:39
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      - Sure...we can go out hunting for chicks... - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:37 1
        
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    - next thing you're gonna tell me is you like spooning -- nm - CQ Oct 24, 09:35 5
      - I'm much too much of a bed hog to spoon properly. -- nm - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:38 4
        
        I hate bed hogs. -- nm - loosilu Oct 24, 09:50
        
        here here. I'm a kicker too -- nm - CQ Oct 24, 09:39 2
        
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        I am NOT a spooner! -- nm - znufrii wants pie Oct 24, 09:44
- agreed...be impulsive. - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:31 7
  - I hate all this "you must wait XX days to call, otherwise they'll consider you desperate/stalkery/insane" - Trish Oct 24, 09:36 2
    - exactly, if she's not interested, waiting awhile isn't going to change that.... if she is, then it's fireworks time. -- nm - CrankYanker Oct 24, 09:38
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  - agree with what Mel says, but not what Trish says. -- nm - Remlik Oct 24, 09:34 1
    - This is why you will never have nice things. - Trish Oct 24, 09:48
  - and then you can spread the sheets. -- nm - CrankYanker Oct 24, 09:31
  - yeah, think without your brain. -- nm - tRuMaN Oct 24, 09:31
don't over think it...use Dawson's line of reasoning, it'll work...obvie. -- nm - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:29
5 days -- nm - CQ Oct 24, 09:29
now! do it now! - the colin Oct 24, 09:28
Your IM is your reason for calling today. She's going to get really busy planning for three months out of town. -- nm - CrankYanker Oct 24, 09:27
Over the weekend. Give her at least one day to decide how excited she should be to hear from you. Then pounce! :) -- nm - sheba Oct 24, 09:27
First date? Personally, I wouldn't do it today. -- nm - Jelly Oct 24, 09:27
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