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In response to "So I want to ask the woman I went out with last night to dinner next week... do I do it today? over the weekend? monday?" by secretslacker

If you had a good time and she had a good time, there's nothing wrong with asking her today.

Posted by Trish (aka Trish) Oct 24 '08, 09:29

geez, if folks would just act on their feelings and stop worrying what people thought and not participate on the oneupmanship game, relationships would be a hell of a lot easier. (This isn't necessarily for you, it's intended for some of the people who answer your question.)

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I dunno... I've been burned by sending Emails right after a date before... - secretslacker Oct 24, 09:46 2
- Cause an email is childish and cowardly. CALL. -- nm - Shaun Oct 24, 09:51
- call her. make voice contact THEN email. -- nm - Remlik Oct 24, 09:48
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- I read this three times and I'm not sure if it's a "yes" or a "no" on Emailing her :) -- nm - secretslacker Oct 24, 09:45 2
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- To add to this... - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:34 15
  - And to add to this: my best relationship (still current, cross fingers) is the only one where I could be with her without having to play tactics - celedhrymandias Oct 24, 09:39
  - agreed. When did you get so wise Mel? -- nm - Remlik Oct 24, 09:38 4
    - I've said it here many times, Mel knows women. -- nm - loosilu Oct 24, 09:49
    - I'm dumb with this stuff. -- nm - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:39
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      - *finger to nose* -- nm - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:39
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    - Sure...we can go out hunting for chicks... - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:37 1
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  - next thing you're gonna tell me is you like spooning -- nm - CQ Oct 24, 09:35 5
    - I'm much too much of a bed hog to spoon properly. -- nm - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:38 4
      - I hate bed hogs. -- nm - loosilu Oct 24, 09:50
      - here here. I'm a kicker too -- nm - CQ Oct 24, 09:39 2
        
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        I am NOT a spooner! -- nm - znufrii wants pie Oct 24, 09:44
agreed...be impulsive. - Mel Profit Oct 24, 09:31 7
- I hate all this "you must wait XX days to call, otherwise they'll consider you desperate/stalkery/insane" - Trish Oct 24, 09:36 2
  - exactly, if she's not interested, waiting awhile isn't going to change that.... if she is, then it's fireworks time. -- nm - CrankYanker Oct 24, 09:38
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- agree with what Mel says, but not what Trish says. -- nm - Remlik Oct 24, 09:34 1
  - This is why you will never have nice things. - Trish Oct 24, 09:48
- and then you can spread the sheets. -- nm - CrankYanker Oct 24, 09:31
- yeah, think without your brain. -- nm - tRuMaN Oct 24, 09:31

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