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LYC, LAM. whatever. This is a rare personal overshare. I fell in love with someone I shouldnt have.

Posted by loosi at home (aka loosilu2) Sep 8 '13, 19:39

He is awesome, we have TONS in common, we love each other and are attracted to each other.

He is also married (6 years) and his wife is AWESOME. I love her. so does he. I will NOT do anything to fuck that up.

sometimes it just can't happen for many reasons. I have decided to see it as a learning experience. I won't cultivate it, and I will be VERY vigilant about where the lines are drawn.

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having been in a relationship like that, its a lot more drama and crap than its worth -- nm - zeitgeist Sep 8, 21:23
Ouch. Hopefully you don't have to be around him much -- nm - amoxy Sep 8, 19:47 1
- he is one of my very favorite art teachers and I see him once a week. - loosi at home Sep 8, 20:03
tough situation. -- nm - Remlik Sep 8, 19:46
Good luck with that. How do you " unfeel" things? - Pippy Sep 8, 19:44 10
- good question! I guess avoid online stalking, avoid "alone" situations. -- nm - loosi at home Sep 8, 19:57
- You can't really control the feel part. Only the "actions" part. And that's the shit that needs to be locked down. nm - ralph wiggum Sep 8, 19:47 2
  - yep, I'm totally on that. -- nm - loosi at home Sep 8, 19:57
  - you're like... smart and stuff. -- nm - mafic Sep 8, 19:48
- I have mastered this over the last 5 years. Honestly -- nm - Bacon Sep 8, 19:46 5
  - I was really hoping for " it eventually" goes away. -- nm - Pippy Sep 8, 19:48 4
    - 3 women over the last 5 years. I was hung up on. One was waterski trip woman that I was gaga over all Summer as ST might remember. - Bacon Sep 8, 19:52 3
      - focusing on flaws is good. and I am also trying to learn good things. - loosi at home Sep 8, 19:59 2
        
        I can see that. I was attracted to the wrong person a lot. Where I succeeded was - Bacon Sep 8, 20:03 1
        
        I TOTALLY get that. I was addicted to drama. I confused it with love. - loosi at home Sep 8, 20:08

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LYC, LAM. whatever. This is a rare personal overshare. I fell in love with someone I shouldnt have.

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