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In response to "I was really hoping for " it eventually" goes away. -- nm" by Pippy

3 women over the last 5 years. I was hung up on. One was waterski trip woman that I was gaga over all Summer as ST might remember.

Posted by Bacon (aka redmond) Sep 8 '13, 19:52

The other one was a 5 week fling with a hot little blonde that dumped me. Those two were the hardest.

But, I started looking closely at their flaws. I focused on them so much while they were talking about other guys they were dating. I started to see how they interacted with new guys. I became thankful that I wasn't those guys. I saw the behind the curtain flaws they had. I really saw them as how they would be in long relationships and thought, wow I dodged a bullet. Bad fits for me. High maintenance types.

So once I realized that they would have made me miserable, the attraction feelings went away.

I have no idea how I can do it but I do it. I am still friends with a lot of ex-girlfriends because I just lose those feelings.

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focusing on flaws is good. and I am also trying to learn good things. - loosi at home Sep 8, 19:59 2
- I can see that. I was attracted to the wrong person a lot. Where I succeeded was - Bacon Sep 8, 20:03 1
  - I TOTALLY get that. I was addicted to drama. I confused it with love. - loosi at home Sep 8, 20:08

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3 women over the last 5 years. I was hung up on. One was waterski trip woman that I was gaga over all Summer as ST might remember.

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