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In response to
"LYC/LAM. I fell in love with the wrong person. I used to fall in love with BAD people. what kind of person SHOULD I love?"
by
loosi at home
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I still think you want a "guy-guy". GG's aren't necessarily assholes, I'm married to one and he's a sweetheart. I think you need to change, not lower
Posted by
Trish (aka trisha)
Sep 8 '13, 22:21
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your expectations. John Mayer is an example of a bad guy-guy. Don't let love of sports or playing video games or watching dumb tv be a deal-breaker. I would die of boredom if I had a man who was totally sweet, always considerate, and always put me above everything all the time. It would be like being married to Alan Alda. Guy-Guys are fun, they want to go do stuff, and best of all, they're independent enough that they don't mind when you go do stuff without them.
Remember, the way to find a guy who has the traits you desire is to go hang out in the places those guys hang out.
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