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Dear Prudence - I've Become Annoyed w/My Husband's Erectile Dysfunction

Posted by Diva (aka Mel Profit) Nov 25 '13, 07:28

Anonymous, Please!: My husband has been having trouble sustaining an erection for over a year now. It happens only sometimes, but lately it has been more and more frequent. I have tried to be calm, loving, supportive about it, and not to get upset. A few nights ago, though, I burst into tears and asked him why he hasn't seen a doctor to try to get to the bottom of this. I said that I was too young (30) to live like this. He immediately agreed and made an appointment for a few days from now. Last night, it happened again, and I got upset. I feel like I can't put on an act of loving support anymore, although I know this is supposed to be one of the most important things a wife can do in this situation. We haven't successfully had sex in around three weeks. Since he got a clean bill of health on a recent physical, I feel that the problem is related to stress in his job, and I feel sure my reaction has multiplied the problem. Can you think of anything I can do to offset the damage I have done? I think I have really hurt his feelings and made him feel small (no pun intended), but it's hard to just stifle all my emotions on this topic anymore.

Diva sez: Um, okay - what? Have you never heard of Viagra? 3 weeks without and you act like this? FFS - No wonder he gets soft around you. (I'm normally not so judgy so soon within a letter post but i can't stay online today.)

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LOL -- nm - elf kelly Nov 25, 08:11 1
- Just give Will some time. Sheesh. -- nm - Inigo Nov 25, 08:18
um, he is seeing a doctor. why not just *not have sex for a few days* and see what the doctor says? - Andie Nov 25, 07:50 2
- a few days?! Are you out of your effin mind! That could be 2 more whole days at least. Maybe 4! Waaaaaaaa -- nm - CQ with a gravy boat Nov 25, 07:56
- haven't you been listening? MY NEEDS!!! -- nm - Whiny Beeyotch si Nov 25, 07:52
sorry, Will. -- nm - spamlet Nov 25, 07:33
He's going to the doctor, and will most likely get a prescription. - Inigo Nov 25, 07:32 7
- because she's a selfish, whiny b. -- nm - Diva Nov 25, 07:33 5
  - My guess is she knows that even if he has a physical problem... - Inigo Nov 25, 07:39 4
    - SHE CAN'T LIVE LIKE THIS!!!! -- nm - Diva Nov 25, 07:41 3
      - omg I'm crying over here -- nm - Epiphany Nov 25, 07:46
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        THE BATTERIES RAN OUT! Does that mean it doesn't want me anymore? - whiny beyotch Nov 25, 07:44
- cause its all about HER! -- nm - Epiphany Nov 25, 07:33
Strange thread for this, but I'll chime in. What an effin selfish bitch. Done -- nm - CQ with a gravy boat Nov 25, 07:30 3
- her self esteem is all tied up in her sex life - and if she doesn't get it fixed now - its going to be - Epiphany Nov 25, 07:32
- this is what I've been waiting for. Now I can resume the day. Thx, CQ. -- nm - Diva Nov 25, 07:31 1
  - hee! -- nm - Epiphany Nov 25, 07:31
threesome -- nm - Beaker Nov 25, 07:28 6
- you joke but it would literally solve everything - Epiphany Nov 25, 07:31 5
  - she's too upset to do so as it's been 3 whole weeks. -- nm - Diva Nov 25, 07:32 4
    - 3 weeks Diva. *THREE* weeks. and how can she be expected to wait a couple more days??? -- nm - Andie Nov 25, 07:51 2
      - I'm only 30!!! -- nm - Whiny Beeyotch si Nov 25, 07:53 1
        
        She obviously needs to work out more. -- nm - Shaun Nov 25, 07:56
    - he needs to leave her for the doorman - Epiphany Nov 25, 07:34
worst. placement of a post on ST. Ever. - Diva Nov 25, 07:28 1
- Heh. :-) -- nm - Krusty Nov 25, 08:00

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