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In response to ""You should have allowed your sister to build a relationship around a lie rather than build a marriage around truth."" by David

i can honestly say it is none of my business what my sibling does in his relationship. i would never get involved. -- nm

Posted by Andie Mar 20 '14, 08:01

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Well, if everyone always did what they were supposed to, we wouldn't have Dear Prudence -- nm - con_carne Mar 20, 08:23
That is certainly your choice. If I cared about someone and I knew they were being deceived, I would say something. - David Mar 20, 08:04 24
- Nobody really has a right to go around telling people how they should identify themselves -- nm - con_carne Mar 20, 08:26
- "1) the sister was not being honest about who she is" is wrong - ty97 Mar 20, 08:13 8
  - Who you were is always still part of who you are. - Inigo Mar 20, 08:24
  - I'm sure that distinction means something to you but it does not to me. Inigo is right about Lie of Omission as a best case scenario. -- nm - David Mar 20, 08:16 6
    - The distinction should matter to you too. - ty97 Mar 20, 08:18 4
      - I am thinking of Rhonda as a woman who was once a man. -- nm - Bacon Mar 20, 08:22
      - I can't speak for anyone else but I am not. And the distinction still does not matter to me. - David Mar 20, 08:21 2
        
        you can replace "transgender" with "inoperable cancer" and the results are the same. nm -- nm - groiny Mar 20, 08:22 1
        
        in that those things should be shared up front, or as close to up front as possible. nm -- nm - groiny Mar 20, 08:23
    - "my girlfriend used to have a dick", is a big deal to me, right or wrong. nm -- nm - groiny Mar 20, 08:18
- As I said, they are *all* horrible in this. -- nm - Spawn Lord Mar 20, 08:06
- this -- nm - Beaker Mar 20, 08:04 12
  - What if Rhonda thoguht he was "the one" and was struggling with how to have the conversation but was planning to? - Spawn Lord Mar 20, 08:11 11
    - If he were The One, she would have had no problem telling him from the start. - David Mar 20, 08:14 10
      - People do not always know it is The One from the beginning. That talk is one that would be difficult. - Spawn Lord Mar 20, 08:22 6
        
        He was a single guy. She was a single girl. The "stole him" part is out the window since he was available. - David Mar 20, 08:23 5
        
        Amy went to him and broke up the relationship. She *made* him available. - Spawn Lord Mar 20, 08:27
        
        It's the sibling version of the bro code. -- nm - Roger More Mar 20, 08:26 3
        
        Scumbag sister. -- nm - Shaun Mar 20, 08:26 2
        
        Yeah, I am shocked that anyone would take her side on this. -- nm - Spawn Lord Mar 20, 08:28 1
        
        had he been told the truth up front, it would not have come to that -- nm - groiny Mar 20, 08:30
      - I was just getting ready to type this. He wasn't The One -- nm - Bacon Mar 20, 08:15 2
        
        i agree he wasn't. but that doesn't mean Rhonda wasn't seriously hurt by this. -- nm - Andie Mar 20, 08:18 1
        
        I am sure Rhonda was very hurt. I agree. - Bacon Mar 20, 08:21
Unless you were going to steal the guy and make him your own, right? -- nm - Spawn Lord Mar 20, 08:03

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