boston.com Love Letters: Disgusted By His Viewing Material
Posted by
Diva (aka Diva)
Mar 21 '14, 13:16
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Dear Meredith,
My husband looks at porn probably every day and no, I don't like it. Before you dismiss my letter as the same as all the others, let me explain. I don't like the fact that he looks at it and yes, it makes me feel bad, but I've come to terms with the fact that I can't change it and have learned to live with it. However, I recently saw that he was looking not at regular pornography, but material made by jilted exes and hackers who film women and post private pics without them knowing it. I feel like it crosses the line.
I don't see much on the internet about women discovering something like this. Am I crazy to feel like this type of material is worse than regular porn? I'm deeply hurt by this and it makes me question how well I know him.
– Concerned, Boston
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Responses:
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She doesn't like the porn and is trying to find a moral high ground to defend her position. -- nm
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David
Mar 21, 15:34
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Just tell Mel to stop. -- nm
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JaxSean
Mar 21, 13:53
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When I was in a relationship, I rarely looked at porn (Usually when the SO was out of town or pregnant)
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amoxy
Mar 21, 13:50
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Dear Boston, take the stick out of your ass and be happy he is not sleeping around -- nm
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peglegpete
Mar 21, 13:25
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"Dear Prudence, please don't ignore my question, it is unique. Now here is my opinion I've already made up my mind about, please validate it for me." -- nm
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con_carne
Mar 21, 13:22
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