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In response to
"No I don't know when but I feel that it will be indeed really soon"
by
JD
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Just in case, put a deadline in your head.
Posted by
ty97
May 26 '14, 10:22
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Your choice, but I recommend nothing past the upcoming weekend. Because there is a risk here of her becoming comfy with the status quo that you will keep her secret.
Here's my concern. She told you around, what, Friday? We just are coming out of a long weekend and what did she do right after you told you? Tell her family? NO. She ran off to San Diego with her mistress.
So I see two risks:
1. As mentioned above, that she settled into a status quo. (unacceptable)
2. That she told you with the hope that you would tell your famly who would leak it to her family so she doesn't have to 'woman up' and tell them (unacceptable)
So set that deadline in your head. Make it soon. And then tell her that she has to tell her family (and relieve you of this burden that is hers, not yours) by that date.
(And I know this is really hard so please don't think I am making light of any of this. But you need to do this for you. Because right now you need to think about you.)
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