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In response to "Hang in there. And my two cents." by ....

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Ok. I need to come clean that I am protected from the bike shop so that the board can cross that part off of the worry list

For the last part of her movie biz career, Veronica was paid better than I was. Her savings, her 401K built the shop. She's taken out some small loans along the way in her name as well as from her family.

There was a rough part and we used my Am Ex to pay some bills but that has been paid off.

I guess in a sense we lived on my paycheck only as the shop was essentially breaking even and she's not drawing a salary. But the fuck? I'm going to charge her back rent for the last three months or whatever?

I do have a pair of credit cards as well as car loan in my name. The balances on those cards is pretty steep but that was us together, our Europe, Coachella, NY and other good times that ran up those balances. And no. Stop right there. Veronica told me those cards have not been used for the business and so just stop. I'll take that with me. On my own, my cost of living will go down and I'll take care of it.

Veronica's got the shop, some CC in her name and her debts.

So we're going to walk away with our respective debts. She keeps the shop. My finances are not tied into the shop in any fashion. And while I believe she'll eventually be wildly successful, I don't deserve any portion of that. Even if I do financially, emotionally I cannot justify it. I didn't put in the work nor the passion.

And the thanks was for your last statement as Veronica I just recently talked and she made the same suggestion or even offer in a bizarre after the point non-couples therapy.

It's on my list of things to be considered.


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