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In response to
"What you have just described is paying mutual bills while receiving 0% of a company to which you are entitled 50%. "
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David
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Please stop on this particular point.
Posted by
JD (aka Jason Dean)
May 30 '14, 18:11
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As long as I am protected from a loss point on the shop which I believe I am. Yes, I will get pro advice on that.
I could more cut her off and tell her to leave me alone and we're done on all levels before I feel entitled and do anything to have any share in the shop. You did read the part where her 401K was the seed money and her loans.
While it makes zero sense and is obviously a purely heart driven choice / mistake...
Does that explanation help you understand how not negotiable this is for me?
And don't take this the wrong way or think you should let up. Though I'm pretty sure you won't let up no matter how badly I take things so again I thank you.
You are doing wonderfully in the tough love role.
There was the good advice that I need to just let feelings come out and there's been points that perfectly sober (I swear) that I've just been numb.
But in finally getting around to it, your incredibly practical advice, painfully, like heart rendingly contradicts with what I feel I have to do. And then the pain and heart rending starts to surface
It hurt when you called her my ex-spouse earlier in the week but that's just statement of fact and I'm coming around on that one.
And perhaps, before I meet my very real possible real life ruin past the emotional issues as you keep cautioning me, maybe I'll come around on this one
But can we just leave me with my possible bad choices and know that that thanks to your counsel we at least disccused the finances. I promise not to forget but at this time.........
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