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In response to "i'm not sure I would call it the norm - but it is fairly prevalent -- nm" by decline

There's a time factor though too. It becomes less acceptable as time goes along.

"I didn't want to invite myself to his 4th of July plans" is fully acceptable after a second date, but not acceptable after a year. Where they actually were in the relationship I don't know...

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