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For those who remember: Part 2 of that Dramatic relationship advice story I had early this week, and needing more

I asked Dave what he was up to tonight, and after stalling for a while, he finally said "I know this is skethcy but Becky and I are going to the movies." They are meeting up 45 minutes from where he lives to go to dinner and a movie together.

She sent Dave an e-mail about how she's very nervous about meeting up, and that she's been waiting for it for a while. The best line is that "we're not friends we're on a totally different level." Keep in mind it's been a week since the break up. She also told him that they should tell Zack this weekend or early next week at the latest about them.

Now Dave told me that if Zack asks to not mention what's going on with them tonight, and to go hang out with him so he's occupied. Wow, that's asking a lot of me and I don't know how I feel about the whole thing.

My opinion: Her life is a mess right now.


ST Advice Needed: If you can sort through the mess inside, please offer some insight
MDH (aka MDH) Mar 16 '09, 08:35
So I have this friend Becky, who is like my best girl friend. Her and I are extremely close. I introduced her to my group of friends/ a bunch of the guys like Junior year of college and starting senior year she hung out with all of us a lot. She and my best guy friend Dave starting hooking up a bit (nothing too serious). This ended, and she started dating Zack, another guy in our group of friends, who is also one of Dave's friends. They dated a year, and just broke up last Tuesday. Dave has been seeing this girl named April who I'm also really good friends with (basically I'm like a matchmaker haha). Becky and April are good friends as well. Friday night, Dave told April he sees her just asa friend, and not really as a girlfriend. She was okay with that, not a huge thing. Well, later that night, Becky gets drunk and calls Dave. She says she's always been into him, and she doesn't want to wait any longer. So basically they want to get together. Here's the kicker: she knows Dave and April have been seeing each other, and she's calling drunk from April's house. April heard the whole conversation. So she now feels betrayed/ used. I'm in an awkward position because I'm friends with everyone. Yet I feel bad for April and Zack (the ex boyfriend). Both seem to have been used and I'm pretty upset at their situation. I like all of them, but when they all ask to support them, and hang out with them on a weekend its rough. I think I've gotta stick to my initial thoughts and support April and Zack. I've already called out Becky and Dave for what they've done. Any thoughts? Btw, this is why you never date around in a group of friends.
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