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In response to "Women I have no interest in don't make me nervous and insecure. With them, I'm fantastic. -- nm" by Mop

that is exactly your issue then, they are people just like you, why be nervous?

Posted by groiny (aka groiny) Mar 10 '15, 13:45

you are not asking them for a loan.

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Oh man, I've made that mistake in the past and it held me back. I would think of women as potential dates first and as people second - con_carne Mar 10, 13:52 5
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  - Now I know how hard Marty had to work it to get his dad to ask out Lorraine. -- nm - CQ Mar 10, 14:06 1
    - *laughing* -- nm - kelly Mar 10, 14:08
  - unlike High School, he can go to a strip club and get lucky for 20 bucks. nm -- nm - groiny Mar 10, 14:00
- I will share a story about this mindset..... - groiny Mar 10, 13:56
I think he needs to say to himself; "Is there a point to being nervous. Will I achieve anything by being nervous here?" - Loyola Mar 10, 13:49 3
- the IM is totally a valid comparison. You can't succeed in pressure situations when you are shitting yourself. nm -- nm - groiny Mar 10, 13:50 2
  - Unless it's running away from a wild animal....might make him slip and slide and be unable to eat you. -- nm - Will Hunting Mar 10, 14:00
  - Exactly. It's ok to be nervous. But conquer it. If you strike out with the girl, you strike out. - Loyola Mar 10, 13:54
maybe their vaginas charge 10% interest. -- nm - Beaker Mar 10, 13:47

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