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In response to "that is exactly your issue then, they are people just like you, why be nervous?" by groiny

Oh man, I've made that mistake in the past and it held me back. I would think of women as potential dates first and as people second

That's bad because when I put so much on the line needlessly, it cripples me socially. Girls are people, even the ones you're attracted to. If you're not compatible as people (you find out they're a meth addict or born again, etc.) then you don't have to worry whether you will be compatible in other ways.

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