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meredith's LL response to Frustrated in New York...

Kevin is the primary caregiver for his best friend. That isn't going to change, not even with the promise of recovery. No matter what happens with the friend, Kevin will want to be a part of the process.

If that doesn't work for you – and you'd prefer to be with someone who can spend the first six months of a relationship getting smitten and showering you with attention – you have to find someone else. You're not a terrible person for wanting more, by the way. You're just being honest about what you need.

Please consider the relationship as is. Kevin has made his priorities clear.

Readers? Should she stay in the relationship? Will any of this change?

– Meredith


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