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So my ex sent me a message yesterday asking if I was available. Yup...

Posted by Mop (aka rburriel) Aug 6 '15, 13:13

...so she starts typing. Lync tells me that she's typing. And she's typing and typing and I'm thinking "Oh, boy. This can't be good." This goes on for maybe two minutes. Good news never comes in long messages. So, what's up? She's looking for a new phone and wants so input.

*whew*

I think I've chatted with her every day this week. That's fine. She's good people. I don't mind chatting with her. She asked me how my trip went and all that. But it always makes me uncomfortable because I don't want to be intruding into her life, I don't want to be nosy. So I rarely volunteer any personal information, I don't randomly tell her about this or that, and I never ask her about her stuff, her trips, whatever. Nor do I have any desire to discuss this matter with her. I feel the status quo is pretty good, just awkward sometimes.

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I think that's a normal and mature balance. - b. Aug 6, 13:28
People don't understand how my ex and I can be friendly. We go to lunch or dinner occasionally, not often. We text occasionally and share funny stuff -- (edited) - sycor Aug 6, 13:26 1
- I've ended up friends with most of my exes. - tobor.2 Aug 6, 14:18

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