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yeah, so the asshole just called my mom again.......

Posted by groiny (aka groiny) Aug 27 '15, 12:22

"I always knew you were a bitch. I can't believe you are going to force me to get a laywer and sue your ass."

It is going to take a lot of self restraint not to go beat the hell out of this man.

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Did the uncle pay the funeral home directly? Tell him to get it from them. - Covington Aug 27, 13:25 5
- they each wrote a check to the funeral home. nm -- nm - groiny Aug 27, 13:26 4
  - Ask for a copy of the check. Does it say "loan"? If not, it was a shared expense. Right? -- nm - Covington Aug 27, 13:28 2
    - How were the rest of the expenses paid? The deceased's estate or from your Mom's account? -- nm - TWuG Aug 27, 13:34
    - that was the understand that my mom had, yes. nm -- nm - groiny Aug 27, 13:29
  - hmmm the plot thickens -- nm - Pippy Aug 27, 13:27
sorry if this was already addressed, but can she not look at a relevant checkbook or bank statements (or account) to see if there was a deposit? -- nm - b. Aug 27, 13:01 2
- the money being paid to the funeral home is not in question. - groiny Aug 27, 13:02 1
  - ah, thanks. in that case, jerk or not, as others said below, if there's enough money in the estate.. actually, does that make it that he didn't - b. Aug 27, 13:13
"Ugh" is right. But, a couple hours from now ... - ReluctantCynic (Deputy Ruiner) Aug 27, 13:00
just because the guy is an ahole and doubling down on it doesn't mean his story isn't plausible, settle but get a restraining order - zeitgeist Aug 27, 12:54
Well I wasn't but I am now. -- nm - spamlet, Reigning Blood Feud Champion Aug 27, 12:37
Yeah he sounds like a upstanding citizen - the more fuss he makes, the more is likely lying about the entire thing - Pippy Aug 27, 12:35 3
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  - Logical. I like it. Could it go to small claims? ( Judge Judy!) for less attorney fees? -- nm - Pippy Aug 27, 12:50 1
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- If he is simply trying to " scare" her into paying - maybe Groiny should make a call so he doesn't think she's defenseless in this matter -- nm - Pippy Aug 27, 12:36 43
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    - i am actually surprised he turned out like this, he did one of two things: - Andie Aug 27, 12:48 26
      - Right. And, while I didn't read the whole thing, wasn't it to take care of the funeral arrangements while she sorted through selling the assets of - pmb Aug 27, 12:57 17
        
        when the husband and him were at the funeral home making arrangements, the 2 of them supposedly - groiny Aug 27, 13:01 15
        
        I guess. IMHO at worst the guy changed his mind and now wants his gift to be a loan. Since it was in the best case scenario a gift, if he wants it - pmb Aug 27, 13:07 11
        
        it is frustrating, and feels like from my perspective, that he sees the opportunity - groiny Aug 27, 13:10 9
        
        Yeah, not arguing that the guy isn't being a jerk, but just looking over the situation with a more objective, outsider's view, I think it's not really - pmb Aug 27, 13:13
        
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        it is possible that, because he (husband) just lost his mother, and was very sick himself.... - groiny Aug 27, 13:16 1
        
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        it could be he was embarrassed to have to ask for help and didn't talk about it. a lot of non-communicating about money goes on with some couples, - b. Aug 27, 13:15 3
        
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        I hadn't seen it when I was typing, but now see above. I wish it was simpler, grny, truly. (everyone should get everything in writing, when it's not- - b. Aug 27, 13:17 1
        
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        the money went right to the funeral home. - groiny Aug 27, 13:14
        
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        so was this two brothers paying for their mother's funeral? - Pippy Aug 27, 13:04 2
        
        this is a son and his uncle. So her brother and her son. nm -- nm - groiny Aug 27, 13:04 1
        
        ahh. -- nm - Pippy Aug 27, 13:05
        
        yeah, this is my thought too. -- nm - jones soda Aug 27, 12:59
      - I kind of feel like they needed to talk more at the initial transaction. this could all have been avoided. this said, - jones soda Aug 27, 12:55 5
        
        have to wonder if he was totally surprised he was cut out of the will -- nm - zeitgeist Aug 27, 12:57 4
        
        maybe not the will all together ( we dont know) but he was cut out of the house. there is a lot we don't know -- nm - Pippy Aug 27, 13:00 1
        
        no one got anything from the will except for my mom and her husband. - groiny Aug 27, 13:03
        
        from what I understand, he was very shocked and is pissed about that. - groiny Aug 27, 12:59 1
        
        that could be it. he could have given the $7000 expecting he would get it back from the estate, and then... no. Maybe he couldn't afford the gift in - Andie Aug 27, 13:17
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      - Some assholes think widows are easy prey. - Loyola Aug 27, 12:52
    - the use of " bitch" would indicate he's not handling this in a professional - lawful manner - if you know what I mean - Pippy Aug 27, 12:42 6
      - that is the rub, how do you "prove" something that was an a and b conversation with a dead person? -- nm - groiny Aug 27, 12:45 4
        
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        I bet he suddently produces a " witness" of some kind to help his cause. What does Groiny's mother want to do? -- nm - Pippy Aug 27, 12:48 2
        
        she told me today she is leaning towards paying him. - groiny Aug 27, 12:50 1
        
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    - I really, really dislike law right now. - groiny Aug 27, 12:39 7
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        it is more like.... - groiny Aug 27, 12:44 5
        
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        transact verbally. You get something in writing with signatures, fine. nm -- nm - groiny Aug 27, 12:48 3
        
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        for sure, and we all know what happens when you lend money to family! - groiny Aug 27, 12:51 1
        
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- I might have her write a check that I will deliver for her. -- nm - groiny Aug 27, 12:35 2
  - $ 7 grand because he " SAYS" she owes it? come on man -- nm - Pippy Aug 27, 12:37 1
    - Yeah I definitely wouldn't pay. It's a 50/50 chance whether he sues or not. - Loyola Aug 27, 12:44
Ugh. -- nm - znufrii Aug 27, 12:25 1
- now he has gotten my shit hot......... - groiny Aug 27, 12:26

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