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In response to "I think my family may be in a huge minority here. We don't exchange gifts between the adults" by decline

We adopted a Secret Santa and a white elephant with steal option a couple of years ago.

It's been great, and took a lot of the stress out of it, if a little of the joy. I think it was really becoming upsetting to my youngest brother, who is not that big an earner, that people were giving gifts in scale and volume that just wasn't feasible for him. Plus, my dad isn't working right now, mom isn't that flush, so it's just made it more low key and less a slippery slope of guilt and bad decisions.

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