friday hax chat q: gf wanted him to put a ring on it, he told her maybe in a few years. she broke up and now he's regretful(ish)
Posted by
pixie ninja (aka chris)
Mar 25 '16, 10:31
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Q: Alexandria, VA
Dear Carolyn, Girlfriend and I were together for about four years. I loved her but I had some immaturity issues. She asked me this year - are we going to get married soon? If so, I'd like to start that process. I told her that I could see it happening in 2-4 years, but that I don't feel any immediate desire for things to change between us. She cried (through multiple conversations) and then broke up with me. I feel like there's now a huge hole in my life. This is the first time in years that I have not spent several days and nights a week with her. I really miss her. I think it would be cruel to try to stay in the relationship if we have such different goals, but I would like to be able to ask for something in between friendship and a relationship. I don't just mean friends with benefits, but I would like for her to continue being a major figure in my life somehow. I'm probably not making sense. Can you see any way this could happen?
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Responses:
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Dude is too immature to have a relationship at the moment. And I know the feeling. -- nm
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Loyola
Mar 25, 10:47
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need to head out soon - what does the Hax say, if you don't mind? -- nm
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Diva
Mar 25, 10:45
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move on. -- nm
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znufrii
Mar 25, 10:41
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having been in a similar position, it sucks. -- nm
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groiny
Mar 25, 10:39
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Have a baby together. That'll solve everything! -- nm
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David
Mar 25, 10:38
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It's just the slutty little whorish fiend you miss. She's a really bad person underneath that facade she wears at all times. Consider yourself lucky.
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CQ
Mar 25, 10:36
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poop or get off the pot -- nm
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crash davis
Mar 25, 10:35
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Heh. No. Nobody wants to be reminded that they wanted to marry someone who didn't want to marry them. -- nm
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colin
Mar 25, 10:34
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Nope. -- nm
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Diva
Mar 25, 10:33
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