LIR for PMB - I know it's crazy and yall can feel free to say so but...
Posted by
Epiphany (aka Epiphany)
Apr 13 '09, 11:44
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I am sure impulsiveness may not be how you describe yourself but what if...
you took that ring and went to whereever she is..ask her again to marry you and to show her you are dead serious - get married THAT DAY!! blow caution to the wind.
THEN: explain you are not going to tell anyone, it belongs to just you two to savor and enjoy - yall can bask in it for awhile - this will:
a - give the daughter more time to deal
b - give you more time to work on the house
c - later you can tell everyone and what the hell are they going to do?? ITS DONE - everyone can just get the HELL over it
then have the wedding yall want. It takes the god damn pressure off.
yes the 16 y/o may not talk to you for a bit but she will come around. promise, promise. she will.
Okay if you can not see yourself doing this - forget all the reasons why not - ask yourself - Can you live without this woman? can you?
my 2 cents and people might scream ST down for even suggesting such lunacy.
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Responses:
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I think this sounds like a great idea, but, my best friend's dad got married when she was 16 without her and her siblings there and it bothered them
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jnine
Apr 13, 12:14
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It's really not me. I appreciate the concept, but it's just not me.
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pmb
Apr 13, 11:58
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unfortunately, my experience was nearly identical to mandy's -- nm
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zork
Apr 13, 11:57
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Devil's advocate...
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Ender
Apr 13, 11:54
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*ding* -- nm
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Spawn
Apr 13, 11:53
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You are the cooolest person I know. :) -- nm
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CQ
Apr 13, 11:51
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i sort of love this. -- nm
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Andie
Apr 13, 11:48
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