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In response to
"i think you're point of them being *teenage* girls is huge."
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Andie
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but to devil's advocate a bit, how many teenage girls *do* get along with their fathers' new SO? it can work sometimes. so maybe there's more to it.
Posted by
kare (aka kare)
Apr 13 '09, 11:53
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my niece got along w/her dad's new wife. she was 15. well, they've had problems since my niece started smoking pot, but at first, they were buds. no pun intended.
i hate for pmb that it became a choice thing. *both* the kids and the fiancee seem to have made it a "you're choosing her/them over mee" thing. i can see it coming from the kids... but it's kind of unfair coming from an adult.
but i'm sure there are far *far* more facts than what you have shared, pmb.
i'd love to see you 1) start couples counseling and 2) postpone the wedding. if your relationship can't handle the pressure of postponing, it won't be able to handle the pressure that will inevitably come along during the rest of your lives together.
and pmb, she needs to trust you. it's not good she's not taking you at your word. :(
hugs.
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