In response to
"Get ready for some outrageous fucked up shit."
by
Mop
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So wrong. Reassuring them together (you & your ex) - talking with all three kids and saying you both love them so much that it helps you get along
Posted by
JenBro
Apr 14 '16, 04:10
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because what is best for them is the most important thing to both of you - and that will never change - you'll love them no matter what - always.
Important to tell them that they can always talk to both of you about anything - you both are "team kids" - and will always have their backs and help with problems - help with whatever they need - want the very best for them always.
There is nothing you two can't do as two homes that parents in one home can do - it's just different, not better or worse.
Also might be a good time to share with them that parents sometimes disagree with each other - but it doesn't mean they love their kids any less or that it's the kids fault. Feelings sometimes makes things hard - but things usually work out - just takes time.
I would be livid - am so sorry this happened. :(
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