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In response to "Get ready for some outrageous fucked up shit." by Mop

So wrong. Reassuring them together (you & your ex) - talking with all three kids and saying you both love them so much that it helps you get along

because what is best for them is the most important thing to both of you - and that will never change - you'll love them no matter what - always.

Important to tell them that they can always talk to both of you about anything - you both are "team kids" - and will always have their backs and help with problems - help with whatever they need - want the very best for them always.

There is nothing you two can't do as two homes that parents in one home can do - it's just different, not better or worse.

Also might be a good time to share with them that parents sometimes disagree with each other - but it doesn't mean they love their kids any less or that it's the kids fault. Feelings sometimes makes things hard - but things usually work out - just takes time.

I would be livid - am so sorry this happened. :(


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