bonus hax chat question: she enabled her teen daughter's friend to sneak out behind friend's mother's back. now the other mother won't speak to her
Posted by
pigby (aka chris)
Apr 24 '09, 10:44
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East Haven, Conn.: I submitted this to your Inbox, but it would help if you can answer soon, since I will be dealing with this woman and her daughter this weekend.
I belong to a club with my teenage daughter, and I am close friends with "Sandra" and her daughter. Due to the nature of this club, I am often responsible for these girls and their welfare. My daughter was talking to her daughter via IM, and this girl wanted to visit a boyfriend in another town. I don't know how much my daughter knew about the situation. I was going to this town the next day, so my daughter asked me if I could drop off this girl at the library, not as part of this club but as a personal favor. I said okay, and did that. I got a call about an hour later from Sandra, saying that she lied to her and to me about her whereabouts. Sandra is now not speaking to me. How culpable am I, and what should I do, if anything to rectify the situation?
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Responses:
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She doesn't give the kids ages, but she shouldn't be dropping off a kid in another town without talking to the parent.
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pmb
Apr 24, 10:58
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This one's just not as fun -- nm
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con_carne
Apr 24, 10:49
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what exactly is the nature of this "club"? -- nm
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znufrii
Apr 24, 10:49
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i would have a group meeting with mother and both daughters. Explain the situation, apologize for not confirming
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Andie - get well Amoxy!
Apr 24, 10:48
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She needs to find out what her daughter knew, react pretty heavily if she's being 'set-up' and basically be 100% a pissed off parent here. -- nm
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Will Hunting
Apr 24, 10:46
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(she should have definitely confirmed with the other mother before taking the kid to another town) -- nm
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pigby
Apr 24, 10:46
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I can't figure out if she knew? -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 24, 10:45
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