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OK, let me clarify: if the girl asked about his sexual history at all, even once, then I think it is incumbent on him to let her know if that changes.

Posted by TFox May 1 '09, 10:31

If she never asked even the once, then no.

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i think its beyond sexual history (or present). if he's lying about his social life at all, i think he's being dishonest. -- nm - Guy May 1, 10:34
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- It is *frowned upon*?!?! Anyone who doesn't ask because it's *frowned upon* deserves to get Hepatitis Z-9000. -- nm - Dr.Vermin, Space Monkey Mafia May 1, 10:37 8
  - Is that even a real disease?!! GOSH. -- nm - Shaun - Chip sucks May 1, 10:38
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    - We run in different circles, obvie. But I think more of ST will agree that most get (at least) a light interrogation before entering the love canal. - Dr.Vermin, Space Monkey Mafia May 1, 10:42 4
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        We agree that some people are dumb. - Dr.Vermin, Space Monkey Mafia May 1, 10:51
      - That is totally smart. -- nm - TFox May 1, 10:43
      - I've never been asked. -- nm - loosilu for Chipacabra May 1, 10:43
    - The converse of course being that we all need to prep sex resumes. -- nm - TFox May 1, 10:41
- except for AFTER sex - Guy May 1, 10:35 1
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Exactly. -- nm - Will Hunting May 1, 10:33
provided he's taking adequate steps to keep himself and his partners safe. -- nm - znufrii May 1, 10:33 13
- condoms don't stop crabs, herpes, warts. -- nm - loosilu for Chipacabra May 1, 10:33 12
  - I realize that, and I hope he does too. - znufrii May 1, 10:35 10
    - apparently not since he thinks condoms take care of safety. -- nm - loosilu for Chipacabra May 1, 10:36 9
      - he says he "uses protection", that doesn't necessarily mean that he thinks condoms are the extent thereof. - znufrii May 1, 10:37 8
        
        what imaginary condoms do you use that protect against everything? -- nm - loosilu for Chipacabra May 1, 10:40 4
        
        I was think more along the lines of communication as a means of protection. - znufrii May 1, 10:43 3
        
        obviously he's not doing t hat at all. -- nm - loosilu for Chipacabra May 1, 10:44 2
        
        yes the 4 lines provided in the original statement definitively shows exactly what kind of person he is and how he treats woman and that he hates cats -- nm - Beakacabra May 1, 10:45 1
        
        he asked if it was ok to do what he is doing as long as they use protection. that's what the whole letter is about. -- nm - loosilu for Chipacabra May 1, 10:46
        
        do you know what they say about people who make inferences? -- nm - Beakacabra May 1, 10:38 2
        
        no. -- nm - znufrii May 1, 10:40 1
        
        me either, I was hoping you did :) -- nm - Beakacabra May 1, 10:41
  - COOTIES!! -- nm - Don Homer May 1, 10:34
I'll agree with that. It's every partner's responsibility to ask the pertinent questions. -- nm - Dr.Vermin, Space Monkey Mafia May 1, 10:32 1
- that's fair I guess. it still seems sleazy though. -- nm - loosilu for Chipacabra May 1, 10:33

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OK, let me clarify: if the girl asked about his sexual history at all, even once, then I think it is incumbent on him to let her know if that changes.

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