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In response to "Also from B2. If you end the date like I do. Then a day or two later on the phone you say, "I just don't think we made a connection" " by Redmond?

Still a cop out. If you're ona date and it isn't working you're just wasting her time and yours.

Posted by the liioulu with umbrella (aka liioulu) May 28 '09, 16:33

And you're copping out because you're afraid she's either going to wig out (as you said not common), or that (most probable) she's going to say, "Yeah, I'm not feeling it either."

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Public wig outs can be uncommon and still warrant taking time to avoid them. - Dr.Vermin May 28, 16:37 27
- So you cop out 100% of the time to avoid that 2%? - the liioulu with umbrella May 28, 16:40 26
  - I don't get in a car with strangers 100% of the time - dogbert183 May 28, 16:44 1
    - If you're on a date you aren't strangers. - the liioulu with umbrella May 28, 16:50
  - I also buckle my seatbelt 100% in case of the (far smaller than) 2% chance I'll need it. - Cougar poolowner May 28, 16:42 20
    - That last bit I really don't believe. - the liioulu with umbrella May 28, 16:47 18
      - If they weren't going well, why didn't *you* end it? Who's the coward? -- nm - Dr.McVermin May 28, 16:55 3
        
        Yep, she walked right into that. Game, set, match. -- nm - Redmond? May 28, 16:56 2
        
        I have walked right out of dates. - the liioulu with umbrella May 28, 17:03 1
        
        ha! so there, boys! - kare May 28, 17:15
      - Heh. Dude is the coward for not taking the out you provided instead of just saying it straight up? - TFox May 28, 16:53
      - Jack Dawson made a great point on B2. Women use the, "I don't feel well" all the time. All the time! It's a total cop out. - Redmond? May 28, 16:53 11
        
        long story as quick as possible. I was given the "I don't feel well" statement one time while with a girl. we were out having fun (so I thought) when - dogbert183 May 28, 17:09 1
        
        in the IM ...."I'm ready" sould say "I'm NOT ready" - dogbert183 May 28, 17:12
        
        toootal eyeroll. - kare May 28, 16:57 7
        
        I use that one sometimes. (spoils) - TFox May 28, 16:58
        
        I like the dog excuse. But my point is valid. It's used a lot. It's almost code for I am not into you, because it's used so much. - Redmond? May 28, 16:58 5
        
        We should use it more, I think. Reclaim it for the dudes. - TFox May 28, 16:59 4
        
        hee! -- nm - kare May 28, 17:00
        
        "owww, my ovaries!" -- nm - Bart May 28, 17:00
        
        The difference between not getting sex on a date, and not getting sex when you are married. I don't feel well is used on a date. I have a headache - Redmond? May 28, 17:00 1
        
        and sometimes *shocker* you *actually* don't feel well! -- nm - kare May 28, 17:01
        
        I am stealing the obvious joke, so you can't use it. Maybe it's because you make them sick Redmond. - Redmond? May 28, 16:54
      - *snork* -- nm - Stephen May 28, 16:51
    - dammit. sfan -- nm - Dr.McVermin May 28, 16:43
  - YES! -- nm - Redmond? May 28, 16:41 2
    - To the IM right? ;) -- nm - the liioulu with umbrella May 28, 16:44 1
      - Eh, I don't like hearing it. The last woman I dated said, "I don't feel any sparks". It sucked, but I got over it. - Redmond? May 28, 16:46
It's a cop out. But I still do it. I don't disagree with you. -- nm - Redmond? May 28, 16:36

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Still a cop out. If you're ona date and it isn't working you're just wasting her time and yours.

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