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In response to "Ugh! That's some bullshit and I'm sorry things are not any better. " by Krusty

I think she had to blame someone and can't blame herself so I was the only party left who could shoulder it.

Posted by amanda Aug 29 '19, 13:43

I don't think she knows that since she's stopped talking to me -- because she stopped talking to me -- I took a lot of time to reflect on who I am. I kept having to check in with myself to be like "do I deserve this? am I this terrible a person that my own and only sister is right to not to talk to me?"

that kind of introspection takes a whole lot of no-nonsense talks with yourself, and that leads to being much more no-nonsense in life. I don't lay down anymore, I don't suffer fools, I call bullshit.

she's kind of reaping what she sowed. I hope she's happy in her decision etc etc.

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Sorry, that really sucks. Curious, where did you leave it with her after this? -- nm - pmb Aug 29, 14:34 2
- I think that by the end of the conversation, she was contrite. though (I neglected to mention this before) - amanda Aug 29, 15:29 1
  - Sorry. I hope she makes the effort. I'm sure some is just guilt and not knowing how to deal with it and probably some fear of the conflict. - pmb Aug 29, 15:53
You seem to have really grown from this terrible situation and made something good come out of it. - Krusty Aug 29, 13:55

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I think she had to blame someone and can't blame herself so I was the only party left who could shoulder it.

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