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In response to
"do you guys recall that my sister stopped speaking to me in december of 2015? she was here last week and texted me."
by
amanda
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You can't chose your family. You can chose your clan.
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I haven't spoken to either of my parents for years, because I cannot allow myself or my wife be manipulated or gaslighted because they refuse to see life for what it is. And I've never met my mother or father in law, even though Cassy and I have been married nearly seventeen years, because my wife feels the same way.
Be strong and courageous. You have every right and reason to cut members of your family off if they're no longer actual family. You have your clan, and I think we're a pretty good clan to belong to.
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