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STIS: I am dealing with something right now that is throwing a huge crimp into this whole "how to deal with Will's mom being sick" thing and I'm not

Posted by kelly (aka kelly) Jun 11 '09, 09:32

sure what to do.

Extremely long story short - Will's mother and I are not really on good terms right now. I am one of the only people around who does not deal with her need to control everyone and everything around her, and this has not gone over well lately. Will spoke to her last week about some stuff we both were concerned about (not just me), but of course it was all blamed on me, the girlfriend who is "trying to place a wedge between us". *sigh*

Things right now are not great with her health, obviously - I'd like to show my support in some way, but I'm not really sure what I should be doing when the woman who is sick is not even acknowledging my presence at the moment. I don't know is appropriate in this instance, and I'm really stressed about it. Being there for Will just doesn't seem like "enough", ya know?

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i would probably try to do something for the whole family... - Andie Jun 11, 09:40 1
- Great idea. Support the family that is supporting her. When my exbosses husband was sick people would drop by with dinner and it was a god send. -- nm - lileve Jun 11, 09:45
You can't make everyone happy. Just be there for Will. -- nm - lileve Jun 11, 09:33 16
- I would add that if kelly is feeling stress, that might flow to those around her, including Will's mom. It might therefore be best to stay away. -- nm - con_carne Jun 11, 09:41
- At this point, that is the only logical course. -- nm - Spawn Jun 11, 09:37
- agreed. -- nm - loosilu Jun 11, 09:37
- I agree with this. - JaxSean Jun 11, 09:36 11
  - But I mean, do I show up at the hospital? Do I sit in the waiting room? Or do I wait at home? -- nm - kelly Jun 11, 09:38 4
    - You're with Will. Go to the hospital, wait in the waiting room for him. If he want you to come into her room, then you're available. -- nm - JaxSean Jun 11, 09:41 1
      - This is my thought also -- nm - amoxy Jun 11, 09:43
    - go to the hospital, but don't visit. -- nm - Andie Jun 11, 09:41
    - stay with will. maybe offer to get stuff from the store that she needs if you need to get away. -- nm - zork Jun 11, 09:40
  - he shouldn't be signing for her or people might thing that she didn't want to -- nm - zork Jun 11, 09:37 5
    - If he leaves her off, it'll look worse. -- nm - JaxSean Jun 11, 09:37 4
      - He should sign her name, but with his non-writing hand. -- nm - Spawn Jun 11, 09:38
      - i meant that she should sign it herself -- nm - zork Jun 11, 09:38 2
        
        *shrug* if they're "together," one person signs "Love, Will & Kelly" and be done with it. -- nm - JaxSean Jun 11, 09:39 1
        
        you don't *look* for things wrong with people the way some people do -- nm - zork Jun 11, 09:41
- this may be the correct response since anything you do could be twisted into something else - zork Jun 11, 09:35

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