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In response to
"What she IMed me an hour ago. "I'm sorry you felt taken advantage of." -- nm"
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loosilu
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She's obviously dealing with a lot, her son has problems, her dad seems to maybe have problems, her husband is transitioning to a woman and they have
Posted by
jnine
Apr 19 '20, 21:39
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financial difficulties and there's a pandemic. I'm sure they're so overwhelmed they haven't really even thought about you and all you did for them. That is their fault, not yours. Unfortunately although you did nothing wrong, now they have you feeling guilty for bailing them out. If her dad was supposed to pay you, she should get the entire amount from him now and finish it. I have a feeling she got money and kept half. On the other hand, if they've been your friends this long, you may just want to take a little more temperate tone, if you want to keep the friendship. The problem was it has been so long and you got frustrated and you rightfully vented. Now, maybe pull back a little, if you want to be friends. If you're done with them, don't bother.
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