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ooh, slept-with-girl-on-first-date dude! (i hate when i miss hax questions) i hate that my first reaction is "what a jerk!"

Posted by kare (aka kare) Jun 19 '09, 11:37

but she could have just as easily been using him as much as he was using her.

they're adults, they mutually jumped in and took that risk, and if he "owes her a call" he probably is returning hers. call her back and be like, "i'm sorry if i gave you the wrong impression, but i got caught up in the moment. i'm just not feeling it."

frankly i think it's jerky to not even call, just in case she's thinking this is the start of something wonderful.

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I been done it both ways. It is no sweat of my back either way. nm -- nm - groiny Jun 19, 11:48 2
- If you're not sweating, you're not doing it fast enough. -- nm - Max Jun 19, 11:51
- You said you were gonna call after vegas! -- nm - Maxx Jun 19, 11:50
Guys don't call back mostly because they think it's the more humane thing to do. So instead of ringing her up and effectively telling her you don't - Loyola Jun 19, 11:41 9
- nuh uh. the humane thing to do is be up front with her, not string her along, with her wondering what's going on, what he's thinking, "does he like - kare Jun 19, 11:45 3
  - I'd get into this more with you, but I don't want to. -- nm - Loyola Jun 19, 11:47 1
    - heh! -- nm - kare Jun 19, 11:48
  - thank you. -- nm - loosilu Jun 19, 11:45
- it goes both ways - dug Jun 19, 11:42
- more humane? I think they're just chicken. -- nm - loosilu Jun 19, 11:42 3
  - Sure, but if you don't want to see her again, it's totally a risk-free chicken. -- nm - TFox Jun 19, 11:43 2
    - that assumes you don't nkow anyone in common. -- nm - loosilu Jun 19, 11:44 1
      - Sure, but I'd never not call back a friend of a friend. Just the random girls. -- nm - TFox Jun 19, 11:45
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- it oculd go both ways actually. -- nm - kare Jun 19, 11:43
Jerk for having slept with her? -- nm - mobile browsing loves mandy lane Jun 19, 11:38 4
- kinda, without (i'm assuming) having come to the mutual understanding that you're just in it to have a little fun - kare Jun 19, 11:42 3
  - he doesn't give enough information, though. -- nm - loosilu Jun 19, 11:48 2
    - they never do! we assume and judge anyway! that's the fun of hax chat!! -- nm - kare Jun 19, 11:48 1
      - true! -- nm - loosilu Jun 19, 11:50

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ooh, slept-with-girl-on-first-date dude! (i hate when i miss hax questions) i hate that my first reaction is "what a jerk!"

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