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In response to "A new friend of a friend basically just told me he wants to boink me." by Hotkiss

A guy likes you. Ok, he's not your type, but i don't exactly see how this is a huge downer or anything -- nm

Posted by ty97 Jun 24 '09, 19:32

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from a woman's perspective, it can be creepy and occasionally threatening. -- nm - loosilu Jun 24, 19:33 31
- It's creepy when a guy is attracted to you enought to come right out and say it? - Trish Jun 24, 19:42 3
  - "can be". if it's a creepy guy. she's made that clear. -- nm - loosilu Jun 24, 19:44 2
    - so unattractive = creepy? -- nm - ty97 Jun 24, 19:44 1
      - No ty, don't worry you are not creepy. - Redmond Jun 24, 19:47
- It's creepy to be liked? - ty97 Jun 24, 19:34 26
  - that's not what we're talking about. -- nm - loosilu Jun 24, 19:39 4
    - Let's recap - ty97 Jun 24, 19:41 3
      - i'm saying "like" never entered into his equation. he saw an object for his urges -- nm - dug Jun 24, 19:43 1
        
        tangent, but I'd say "want to boink" is a form of liking - ty97 Jun 24, 19:47
      - I was answering based on her situation. she finds him creepy. -- nm - loosilu Jun 24, 19:42
  - I don't think it's creepy, I just think he only wants to bone her. nm - ralph wiggum Jun 24, 19:37 5
    - Exactly. -- nm - Jim Jun 24, 19:39 4
      - Now it would be creepy if the person kept pressing after being told that she wasn't interested. nm - ralph wiggum Jun 24, 19:46 3
        
        Take the hint, pixie. -- nm - David Jun 24, 19:54
        
        Word. From wjhat she said though...this "we should be friends" is the first indication she's given that she's not interested. -- nm - Jim Jun 24, 19:48 1
        
        oops...hit enter too soon. Was gonna say....so we'll see what his next move is before we can tell if he's really creepy. -- nm - Jim Jun 24, 19:49
  - "Sexual harrassment is just unwanted attention from someone ugly." -- nm - Hotkiss Jun 24, 19:35
  - i wouldn't say he "liked" her. he wants to boff her, at most -- nm - dug Jun 24, 19:35 13
    - Which is totally something I look to do with people I don't like. - ty97 Jun 24, 19:38 12
      - "I just want to stay friends" means "go away loser" -- nm - Redmond Jun 24, 19:41 7
        
        In most cases. In mine it means "I just want to stay friends" -- nm - Redmond Jun 24, 19:42 6
        
        And once in awhile when I need a self esteem boost or get drunk I want you to beg for sex before I give it to you then kick you out of the house so I - Redmond Jun 24, 19:43 5
        
        How is it that you don't have a girlfriend? -- nm - kelly Jun 24, 19:47 4
        
        You do know I was speaking like I was her right? That is not how I think, but how they think. - Redmond Jun 24, 19:52 3
        
        This entire thread confuses me! -- nm - kelly Jun 24, 19:54 2
        
        Once I realised that no one would beg Redmond for sex, it became a lot clearer - Roger More Jun 24, 19:55
        
        the whole board is one long "who's on first?" -- nm - 'lia Jun 24, 19:55
      - it doesn't sound like she wants to be friends. the guy is creeping her out, that's her right to decide. -- nm - loosilu Jun 24, 19:41 2
        
        Hello, left field. Where did I say it wasn't here choice? -- nm - ty97 Jun 24, 19:42 1
        
        ok, this is already ridiculous. -- nm - loosilu Jun 24, 19:44
      - you totally don't have to like someone to have sex with them. quite the opposite, often - dug Jun 24, 19:39

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