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In response to "Just break up with him. Say you want to see other people, that's that. " by musubi

no need to break up with him, necessarily, just be completely clear and honest with what you're looking for, and he can break it off with you if that

Posted by znufrii Jun 25 '09, 12:57

doesn't suit his needs.

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He already told her what his needs are. -- nm - loosilu Jun 25, 13:06
aka the coward's way out. -- nm - Reagen Jun 25, 13:00
No. If he wants monogomy, and she won't commit to it, that's not a reasonable expectation. End it. (nm) - musubi Jun 25, 12:59 1
- But moose, then you wouldn't drag it out painfully for another year. -- nm - loosilu Jun 25, 13:09
It's clear it doesn't suit his needs as his continued insistence shows. - Will Hunting Jun 25, 12:58
I don't want to let him go either -- nm - Hotkiss Jun 25, 12:57 12
- I don't want to get out of bed in the morning, but I have to. -- nm - loosilu Jun 25, 13:02
- Is this the guy that broke up with you all of those times and shoved you? -- nm - Diva Jun 25, 13:01 3
  - And oh yeah, tried to use you for sex and a ride to the airport? -- nm - Diva Jun 25, 13:02 2
    - and she cheated on him too. -- nm - loosilu Jun 25, 13:03
    - Well, c'mon, the last part was just smart. - TFox Jun 25, 13:03
- Them's the breaks. If you want to be free to be with others, give him that freedom to. - musubi Jun 25, 13:00
- you don't get to have your cake and eat it too. sorry. you need to prioritize. and based on the fact that you have already made it - Andie Jun 25, 13:00
- SFEK so now I'm an opportunist -- nm - Hotkiss Jun 25, 12:58 4
  - I don't call that an opportunist. I call it an confused youth. - Will Hunting Jun 25, 13:03
  - You're being unfair to him by putting your wants in front of his needs. -- nm - loosilu Jun 25, 13:02
  - Yeah, unfortunately you need to pick one or the other. If he wants more than you do on the monogamy front, it can't end well. - TFox Jun 25, 13:00 1
    - And don't keep repeating that process. - Will Hunting Jun 25, 13:03

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no need to break up with him, necessarily, just be completely clear and honest with what you're looking for, and he can break it off with you if that

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