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In response to
"it's friday, let's do drama. i told you how my in-laws have gotten pretty extreme and unfriendly throughout the pandemic. (trigger: violence)"
by
colin
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If your partner wants a relationship, actually *wants* it, not feels obligated, then be completely honest.
Posted by
TWuG
May 14 '21, 07:35
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"This is what you did, this is how it affected me, this is how you can make amends. No, you don't get to set terms because I'm telling you what *my* needs are in this. If you can't accommodate them, then I will move on without a relationship with you."
Parents, siblings, family in general, are NOT owed a relationship with you just because you're related by blood or marriage.
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