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In response to
"I…what? Are you dating or just friends?"
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Not Picard
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Well, I guess we're dating but at the same time, there's no expectations for the long term
Posted by
JD (aka Jason Dean)
Nov 4 '21, 10:18
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TL;DR It doesn't make sense to us so it's a struggle to have it make sense to others
So the constant annoyance of those around us, no, we're not 'official'. No, we don't have any idea of what to call this
But from the outside looking in, I get it
We spent this past weekend together and then ended up going back to same area for dinner on Monday night as she'd left her credit card at one of the restaurants.
We went and saw ABBA The Concert on Tuesday.
I think my housemate thinks I've all but moved out and I only come by the house to wash clothes
However with all of that she's Ms Right Now as opposed to Ms Right.
Alternately, she told me the other day: I love you but I'm not in love with you. That struck me as simple and powerful. Note this is not a bad thing. That statement is probably as much as there is as description for whatever this is. We love being together and have an amazing amount of fun doing things together but there's no expectations past the moment
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