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if you a girl who complains about getting flowers the day after doing the deed, you need to get a grip.

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Jul 8 '09, 13:29

i'm assuming that you would have *some* interest in this person. if it was just a drunken-one-night-thing, there's no way they'd send you flowers in the first place.

seriously, i'm failing to see the downside here.

(now, the wording on the *card* could make things weird, but not the gesture itself.)

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if you want to say something to me, you can just say it to me instead of as a generic thing. - loosilu Jul 8, 13:35 3
- so, a text message saying 'thinking of you' is okay, but a nice bouquet of tulips is bad? - Andie Jul 8, 13:35 2
  - no, I mean you (Andie) seemed to be addressing your statement to me (loosi). -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 13:36 1
    - i've read about seven different threads on this on three boards. i put one statment putting my stance on the issue. -- nm - Andie Jul 8, 13:39
i agree. -- nm - kare Jul 8, 13:34
I think my thinking is: it's the first time y'all jammed, you are maybe feeling a little insecure, and then have a big reminder of it on your desk... - TFox Jul 8, 13:33 7
- i think you'd be way *more* insecure to have no contact. -- nm - Andie Jul 8, 13:34
- well, on b3 there was a whole discussion about deilberately making the girl feel insecure, which I found a bit weird. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 13:33 2
  - You know, there's that pickup-artist reality show on one of those channels ... that is exactly their strategy, is it not? -- nm - Beryllium Jul 8, 13:34 1
    - yes, and it's sad to think that some guys use that as a strategy. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 13:35
- i think it all depends on the jam session. -- nm - CQ Jul 8, 13:33
- or at least distracting. -- nm - znufrii Jul 8, 13:33 1
  - well, I think people count on the distracting part to work in their favour. - Beryllium Jul 8, 13:34
no kidding - 'lia Jul 8, 13:31
I see nothing wrong with it either, but I do find the discussion of it, on B3.....weird. (nm) - musubi Jul 8, 13:31 3
- i should probably go read the original discussion i guess. -- nm - Andie Jul 8, 13:32 2
  - Spawn summarizes it alright a few threads down -- nm - con_carne Jul 8, 13:33 1
    - which one? "as long as the beverage isn't carbonated, this is always good"? -- nm - Beryllium Jul 8, 13:33

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if you a girl who complains about getting flowers the day after doing the deed, you need to get a grip.

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